Is this where we are going?

Hello friends thank you for taking a moment to read.

I am Victoria Kelley, a mother, a concerned citizen, an individual who desires change in the world and today a spokesperson about health-care reform.

I am reminded today with this health-care reform, that animals behave better than humans do lately.

Call me a PIG if you wish. Seems that is a popular word. However, if I am a Pig…I will take that as a compliment.

Pigs are loyal, highly intelligent, great companions, house trainable, good mothers and very independent.

Seems to me, that Pigs have more going for them, than most humans these days.

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I think what really astounds me, is that our government seem to think that people are stupid. Especially over this health-care reform. I do not claim to be any great authority in politics, but I do know when my rights and that of my family are slowly being taken away from you, me, our children.
My boys are 10 and 11 years old. As their mother, I am going to keep fighting for their rights too.

The biggest problem I see is, that people are allowing their anger to over rule their good judgment here. Nothing Good was ever achieved with Anger. We have a world full of it.

Martin Luther King Jr and Gandhi achieved what they did with peaceful demonstrations. If this country got their sense back, we could follow these wonderful examples and still win anything. When a man gives way to anger, he harms himself. – Gandhi
History will have to record that the greatest tragedy of this period of social transition was not the strident clamor of the bad people, but the appalling silence of the good people.-Martin Luther King Jr.

Even from the grave, these two men have inspired and given me instruction.

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There are moments in life when you must act even though you cannot carry your best friends with you. The still small voice within you must always be the final arbiter when there is a conflict of duty. – Gandhi

If we are to go forward, we must go back and rediscover those precious values – that all reality hinges on moral foundations and that all reality has spiritual control. -Martin Luther King Jr.

People stand up for your rights after all you are “We Are The People.”

I ask you to do this though, in a PEACEFUL  manner. Show your children the CORRECT way for the future.

No amount of violence has ever solved real problems before, even health care reform. If you stay angry and violent over this issue, you may need health care sooner than you think.

WE do have however, the right to speak up and voice our concerns.

Your Children have a right to choose their own health care, for their future too. Please consider that.

The Collective have something very interesting to say to Humanity about Politics and it’s workings. You should read it. It can be found in their self named titled book -The Collective Speaks to Humanity-

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Many Blessings
Victoria

Victoria Kelley is a long time personal life coach and spiritual teacher of new age philosophies. Victoria is deeply concerned with the plight of children all over the world. Her video coaching series, explores many dimensions of life and providing invaluable answers, to life’s great mysteries.

Is This Really What Your Relationship Is All About?

Here we go again; mates, husbands, wives, sex, mental, emotional, forever, you, spirit. I know it can be hard work. Hi I am Victoria Kelley.

I have spoken to you, so far on your inner being and fulfilling who you are.

Today let’s talk about the relationship aspect of who and what you wish to give to someone else.

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So then, what is true love?
If I were to ask you this I am so sure you would have at least 10 answers right off the top of your head. BUT…are they what you want in a relationship or is it the value of Love itself.
Two totally different aspects here.

Many great books of literature have spoken about Love including the bible.
One aspect of true love that you may never have considered before is; when you become a servant in your heart to all people, you understand the depths of true love.

Much of today’s mind set is based in ME and CONTROL. True love is almost a fleeting glimpse as it passes by.

Love does not mean controlling others thoughts, feelings, weight, attitudes, dress style or choices.
Total and unconditionally accepting the other person is what love is.
Here is another thought to consider when looking for a mate.

If you are not complete within yourself and do not understand your own direction, then how can you love someone else, or expect them to love you?

How can you really think giving another, what you consider YOUR kind of love, when you have no concept of how to LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.
This is one of the biggest mistakes mankind makes.
We choose mates based on our own insecurities and we hope they will change because we will make them!
We go from relationship to relationship hoping that our own voids will be filled by others.

In the end, YOU are the only ONE who can make you happy. No-one else can do that for you.

How many divorces happen in the United States every year ? 4 in 5 people will be married at least once. 1 in 3 will be divorced at least once.
Terrible facts aren’t they?

We have come to expect perfection in our mate.

We want to control and dominate them sometimes too.

The body beautiful and shallow thoughts and feelings of each other.

Three very important issues to discuss here:

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Perfection… So he leaves a few dirty socks on the floor. It’s not your job to tell him everyday about the socks, because he will only do it more. Leave them in a pile on the floor and when he runs out of socks he will find them. No-body is perfect including YOU. I am sure you have some really annoying habits as well. Maybe you leave make-up all over the bathroom. Did you ever consider your mate finds this totally annoying? Love and less expectations of the other can make this quickly stop. Stop looking at all your mates faults, and start working on your own. You cannot change anyone else, just yourself. You are not the thought police. Grow up in your marriage or relationship, you are not babies anymore. Stop acting like it.

Domination… Love does mean that you have to check in every hour with your mate. “Where are you’” questions, should be turned into trust answers. If your mate has cheated before, ask yourself why you are still in the relationship if you don’t trust them. Please don’t say to me; “because you love them” either…because if you don’t trust them ..you don’t love them. Love also does not mean verbally hurting someone, hitting or laying your hands on them, telling them what to wear, making them afraid, yelling at them. All of these things are NOT LOVE. How can YOU claim to love anyone, including yourself, if you are so mean spirited like this.

Vanity and Looks… Be serious for one minute. You are not going to look 25 forever. So is your mate for that matter. If you want to know what you and your mate are going to look like in the future; take a look at your own parents for starters.No amount of plastic surgery is going to change that either. You will age, happens to the best of us. Where did it say in your wedding vows, a muscle bound hunk, or hour glass figure was part of the deal? You are going to get wrinkles, stretch marks, put on weight, constipation, gas problems, and the occasional belch and many other things…there I said it! Get over yourself and quickly. You are going to get old and so is your mate.

If you are having problems intimately, this could just be a matter of communication. Talk to each other about it. Unless you speak up, how is your mate supposed to know what you want, don’t want, like or don’t like.

There are very few MIND READERS in this world. He or She will not always know. Don’t assume.

Honestly, is talking to each other so painful?

COMMUNICATION is one of the biggest reasons people do not stay married or together anymore. It’s much easier to get a divorce and hence the breakdown of our society and kids that are so messed up over their parents fighting. GROW UP PEOPLE. For the sake of your children, teach them something better than watching YOU their parents argue, sulk, act like babies and throw temper tantrums. Nice going mom and dad.

Tell your partner or mate that you love them very much today. They are the best thing that ever happened to you. How lucky you are to have them in your life. Be happy, you both deserve it. Life is way too short. Too many things can happen to change dramatically overnight…

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Love and Blessings

Victoria
Victoria Kelley is a long time personal life coach and spiritual teacher of new age philosophies. Victoria is deeply concerned with the plight of children all over the world. Her video coaching series, explores many dimensions of life and providing invaluable answers, to life’s great mysteries.

Is this where we are going?

Hello friends thank you for taking a moment to read.

I am Victoria Kelley, a mother, a concerned citizen, an individual who desires change in the world and today a spokesperson about health-care reform.

I am reminded today with this health-care reform, that animals behave better than humans do lately.

People are calling each other “PIGS” However, if I am a Pig…I will take that as a compliment.

Pigs are loyal, highly intelligent, great companions, house trainable, good mothers and very independent.

That says more, than a lot of humans these days.

Read More. . .
If you think you are NOT being fed more Poop over this whole Health-care reform, then think again. I do not claim to be any great authority in politics, but I do know when my rights and that of my family are slowly being taken away from you, me, our children.
I am a mother fighting for the rights of my beautiful boys who are 10 and 11 years old.

The biggest problem I see is, that people are allowing their anger to over rule their good judgment here. Nothing Good was ever achieved with Anger. We have a world full of it.

Martin Luther King Jr and Gandhi achieved what they did with peaceful demonstrations. If this country got their sense back, we could follow these wonderful examples and still win anything. When a man gives way to anger, he harms himself. – Gandhi
History will have to record that the greatest tragedy of this period of social transition was not the strident clamor of the bad people, but the appalling silence of the good people.-Martin Luther King Jr.

Even from the grave, these two men have inspired and given me instruction.

Read More. . .
There are moments in life when you must act even though you cannot carry your best friends with you. The still small voice within you must always be the final arbiter when there is a conflict of duty. – Gandhi

If we are to go forward, we must go back and rediscover those precious values – that all reality hinges on moral foundations and that all reality has spiritual control. -Martin Luther King Jr.

People stand up for your rights after all you are “We Are The People.”

I ask you to do this though, in a PEACEFUL  manner. Show your children the CORRECT way for the future.

No amount of violence has ever solved real problems before, even health care reform. If you stay angry and violent over this issue, you may need health care sooner than you think.

However, YOU have every right to voice your opinions and discontentment.

Your Children have a right to choose their own health care, for their future too. Please consider that.

The Collective have something very interesting to say to Humanity about Politics and it’s workings. You should read it. It can be found in their self named titled book -The Collective Speaks to Humanity-

Read More Here:

Many Blessings
Victoria

Victoria Kelley is a long time personal life coach and spiritual teacher of new age philosophies. Victoria is deeply concerned with the plight of children all over the world. Her video coaching series, explores many dimensions of life and providing invaluable answers, to life’s great mysteries.

Is This Really What Your Relationship Is All About?

Hello there my name is Victoria Kelley and I would like to involve you in a quick read about relationships, men, women, sex, partners, mates, husbands, wives, emotional process of who you are.

In the past few weeks I have been helping you discover your inner being and how beautiful you are.

Today I would like to discuss relationships and how you can also fulfill yourself here too.

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So then, what is true love?
If I were to ask you this I am so sure you would have at least 10 answers right off the top of your head. BUT…are they what you want in a relationship or is it the value of Love itself.
Two totally different aspects here.

The bible and many other great writings to humanity speak of Love.
The one thing that stands out in my mind is that when you become a servant to others in your heart, then you will come to understand true love.

Even in relationships today, it is based in CONTROL and me, me ME. True Love is almost non existent anymore.

Love does not mean controlling others thoughts, feelings, weight, attitudes, dress style or choices.
It means total acceptance of the other.
Here is another thought to consider when looking for a mate.

If you do not know who you are, and have not done the work on yourself first, then how can you expect someone else to love you?

How can you really think giving another, what you consider YOUR kind of love, when you have no concept of how to LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.
This is mankind’s ultimate flaw with love.
We choose mates based on our own insecurities and we hope they will change because we will make them!
Our own inadequacies and deep seeded problems, we think will be masked or filled by the other person.

In the end, YOU are the only ONE who can make you happy. No-one else can do that for you.

Look at the divorce rate in the United States alone ever year. 4 in 5 people will be married at least once. 1 in 3 will be divorced at least once.
Not very good odds.

Expecting perfection from our mate and ourselves.

Domination in relationships and the ultimate control.

The body beautiful and shallow thoughts and feelings of each other.

Three very important issues to discuss here:

Read More. . .
Perfection… So he leaves a few dirty socks on the floor. It’s not your job to tell him everyday about the socks, because he will only do it more. Leave them in a pile on the floor and when he runs out of socks he will find them. No-body is perfect including YOU. I just bet your mate can name off a few of YOUR annoying habits as well. Maybe you leave make-up all over the bathroom. Did you ever consider your mate finds this totally annoying? Love and less expectations of the other can make this quickly stop. Before you are so quick to judge your mates faults, go and take a look in the mirror and deal with your own first. You cannot change anyone else, just yourself. You are not the thought police. Grow up in your marriage or relationship, you are not babies anymore. Stop acting like it.

Domination… Love does mean that you have to check in every hour with your mate. Stop asking your mate “Where they are” and “Who are you with” every hour. How annoying and controlling is that anyway? If your mate has cheated before, ask yourself why you are still in the relationship if you don’t trust them. Please don’t say to me; “because you love them” either…because if you don’t trust them ..you don’t love them. Being in a relationship or married does not mean you have the right to boss, control, yell, throw things, physically, verbally, emotionally, mentally or spiritually say what ever you feel like to them. All of these things are NOT LOVE. How can YOU claim to love anyone, including yourself, if you are so mean spirited like this.

Vanity and Looks… Be serious for one minute. You are not going to look 25 forever. So is your mate for that matter. If you want to know what you and your mate are going to look like in the future; take a look at your own parents for starters. Face lifts, plastic surgery and other things, will only hold it back a few years. Inside, your body still ages anyway. Remember your wedding day? Did anyone say anything about Muscles, slim, beautiful, glamor, vanity? You are going to get wrinkles, stretch marks, put on weight, constipation, gas problems, and the occasional belch and many other things…there I said it! Get over yourself and quickly. You are going to get old and so is your mate.

If you are having problems intimately, this could just be a matter of communication. Talk to each other about it. Unless you speak up, how is your mate supposed to know what you want, don’t want, like or don’t like.

He or she is NOT A MIND READER. Do not get into the habit of assuming.

Honestly, is talking to each other so painful?

One of the biggest reasons people no longer stay together is because they WILL NOT COMMUNICATE. It’s much easier to get a divorce and hence the breakdown of our society and kids that are so messed up over their parents fighting. GROW UP PEOPLE. Teach your children something better than this, for pity’s sake. Nice going mom and dad.

Tell your partner or mate that you love them very much today. They are the best thing that ever happened to you. Tell them that your life is so enriched and blessed because they share it with you. Be happy, you both deserve it. Life is so precious. Tomorrow something may happen. You will never get back this time again. It will be too late then…

Free Audio Teaching. Hear More. . .

Love and Blessings

Victoria
Victoria Kelley is a long time personal life coach and spiritual teacher of new age philosophies. Victoria is deeply concerned with the plight of children all over the world. Her video coaching series, explores many dimensions of life and providing invaluable answers, to life’s great mysteries.

Free Video Reveals #1 Love Secret

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Specialist , writes… …

Donna from N.C. Asked those that heartfelt question. As a Law of Attraction relationship coach, here’s the relationship advice I have for her. Donna, I’m so glad that you know that you definitely need to release the hurts for your past before you can find and keep lasting love.

The Law of Attraction states “you attract more of what you focus on.” Before we can find and keep love, clearing out the past and healing old wounds is necessary. They take up emotional space. It’s impossible to occupy a space when that space is already taken. You wouldn’t dream of pouring more coffee into a full coffee cup. Then why try to have a successful relationship when holding onto hurts or grudges from the past?

You can get online Law of Attraction relationship coaching to teach you how to create emotional space as a way of clearing that out. You want to look at what energy you’re holding about the hurt. There’s a story you’re telling yourself that is playing out as a truth for you. Once you clean up your past hurt and the energy it holds, you’ll be able to welcome in the one who will light up your life..

You may have a smile on your face and be dressed to the nines with a smile on your face, but you’ve got this energy field you’re dragging around that’s draining your energy and killing the possibility of living a happy fulfilling life in relationship~As long as you’re dragging around the past with all the drama and trauma, it doesn’t matter where you go or how good you look, you won’t be completely fulfilled.

You’ll learn much more about how to Make Space and Clearing Out the Old AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

Free Relationship Video

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …

As a coach, giving advice on dating and relationships is my passion. Helping people with their vulnerabilities and concerns is precious work. You feel particularly vulnerable when you’ve just started the dating process, everything is new in the relationship. You still feel like you need to know if they’ll stay committed. Wanda from Arizona asked “How do I know they’ll stay committed to the relationship”?

In my free 7 Secrets video, I explain how your concern could be address from a couple different vantage points. Your concern could be related to you getting clear on the values you desire in your mate when you Make the List, or it could also fall under the building your Self-Esteem category.

But primarily as I see it, I think this concern falls under the lesson on learning how to Make Your List. You see, you may have had a partner who strayed, or wouldn’t commit and you may have been hurt deeply and yet when I coach you on how to make your list, you’ll also amplify your desire and gain clarity on what you want and why you want it. Writing the list is a great focusing tool. Focusing brings clarity and intentionality in what you desire. You”ll be able to identify whether you have split energy on the subject. And you’ll clear any conflicting energy out of your way.

You quickly understand that you have the power to ask for what you want and get it. You’ll also learn how to determine what in which areas you won’t compromise.

It’s great to know that these principles also work in all areas of life, not just in love.

You’ll learn much more about how to Make Your List AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

Free Relationship Video

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …

Donna from N.C. Asked those that heartfelt question. As a Law of Attraction relationship coach, here’s the relationship advice I have for her. Donna, I’m so glad that you know that you definitely need to release the hurts for your past before you can successfully attract a new and lasting love.

The Law of Attraction states “you attract more of what you focus on.” Before we can welcome in our new love relationship, clearing out the past and healing old wounds is necessary. They take up emotional space. And you can’t put something in the place where the space is already occupied. You wouldn’t dream of pouring more coffee into a full coffee cup. That’s what is happening energetically when you try to do that in a relationship.

You can get online Law of Attraction relationship coaching to teach you how to create emotional space as a way of clearing that out. You want to look at what energy you’re holding about the hurt. Also you’ve got a belief that is running in the background that doesn’t serve you. Once you clean up your past hurt and the energy it holds, you’ll be able to welcome in the one who will light up your life..

You may have a smile on your face and be dressed to the nines with a smile on your face, but you’ve got this energy field you’re dragging around that’s draining your energy and killing the possibility of living a happy fulfilling life in relationship~As long as you’re dragging around the past with all the drama and trauma, it doesn’t matter where you go or how good you look, you won’t be completely fulfilled.

I teach so much more about how to Make Space and Clearing Out the Old AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

Free Relationship Video

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Advisor , writes… …

As a coach, giving advice on dating and relationships is my passion. Helping people with their vulnerabilities and concerns is precious work. You feel particularly vulnerable when you’ve just started the dating process, everything is new in the relationship. You still feel like you need to know if they’ll stay committed. Wanda from Arizona asked “How do I know they’ll stay committed to the relationship”?

In my free 7 Secrets video, I explain how your concern could be address from a couple different vantage points. Your concern could be related to finding clarity on the values you desire in your mate when you Make the List, or it could also fall under the building your Self-Esteem category.

But primarily as I see it, I think this concern falls under the lesson on learning how to Make Your List. You see, you may have had a partner who strayed, or wouldn’t commit and you may have been hurt deeply and yet when I coach you on how to make your list, you’ll also amplify your desire and gain clarity on what you want and why you want it. When you write the list of what you want in your soul mate, you’ll learn what it feels like to feel confident in love. Focusing brings clarity and intentionality in what you desire. In making your list you’ll find out if you’re sending any mixed signals and then you’ll sweep them out.

The way I teach the Law of Attraction and transformational principles, you’ll understand that you have the creative license to write the details to your own specifications What’s more, you get to say which elements are the ‘deal breakers’ when it comes to attracting your ideal love relationship.

The tools you’ll learn apply to every area of life, not just attracting your dream love.

You’ll learn much more about how to Make Your List AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

Free Video Reveals #1 Love Secret

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Expert , writes… …

Fran from Idaho asked the question “How do I find my ideal partner?”

You’ve come to the right place for relationship advice. To find your ideal love you need to first get clear about your desire. By asking yourself the question and writing it down, you’ll start the important first step.

If you’re not sure, if you’re afraid to state what it is you really want, then you’re transmitting either mixed or very weak, diluted signals to the Universe. You can’t get very far with weak desire. I’ve always found that a good love and relationship coach helps a great deal.

I recommend that you probe the depths of your heart.. You don’t have to share your deeply held desires to anyone else. It is important, however, that you get clear and state what you want in detail. As you’re writing your list, pay attention to the way you feel. Do you feel excited and expectant or anxious and full of doubt? This is an energy diagnostic that will tell you how strong your attraction signal is. If you’re doubtful, then simply work on what it will feel like when…..

• When you’re fulfilled in the love of your dream
• When have your best friend as your beloved
• When you introduce him to your friends and they love him

Find what it will feel like, AS IF, it’s already happened.

Another important question is, “Are you resisting your desire”? Most of the time, because of our conditioning to think small, play it safe and other limiting beliefs, we don’t move forward in our relationship quest with much follow-through. That is, we have doubts, fears and poor self-image that hangs us up in allowing our desires to be fulfilled.

Remember, the Universe likes clarity, so get clear on what you wanlove,relationship,find love,relationship advice,love advice,law of attractiont. You’ll start to attract love with my free relationship video. And add some passion or emotion to your desire and imagine what it feels like to already have your desire fulfilled. When you get my FREE Video, you’ll learn so much more about Relationship Attraction revealing the #1 Secret to Finding the Love of Your Dreams — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com