What is Middle life in relationship to who I am? Is it a physical, mental, emotional or spiritual revelation? It may very well be all.

I do not know the day or time it occurred but I had gained insight of what it is to live inside my own skin. This physical part that attracts people and things into my space. The visual appearance that puts people at ease or makes them turn and walk away. The part that so many women and men pay to alter, through lifting and tucking to pretend that along with their new found wisdom they also have found their youth. That mid life reflection in the mirror that you avoid until the day reality sets in and you start yielding to these new needs, wants and desires.

The need to get connected to yourself becomes a priority. There is a connection between Relationship Advice and Face. The held together self starts falling apart and you have no understanding of how to put those pieces back the way they were. You actually don’t want things the way they were. The desire for change gets overwhelming. You find that you have now created a new mission and the journey or the next chapter in your life begins.

The list begins by asking yourself what you want . Find yourself a great looking blank page book that represents you. Start to write all your ideas, dreams and desires in this book as carrying everything around in your head can become overwhelming. The more you write the more you allow your brain to dig out what lies beneath that first layer. You may want a different look or need to present yourself differently.

You have a need to present in a new way when others ask for your attention. You may want to start to travel or a new career. The items on your crucial list can be simple and work into higherr desires that will bring more noticeable changes.

Take the plunge and evaluate each area of your life from career to friendships. Check out what’s in your make up and the “stuff” your holding. You deserve to honestly express yourself that uplift you, and other people. It’s actually time to really face the reflection looking back at you in the mirror of the present moment.

This mid life moment is yours to dissect, evaluate and eliminate.

When you begin to see and feel the changes within yourself, the outward starts to reflect the same. The ease of being with yourself as well as others becomes noticeable. You attract new people, places and opportunities into your life minus the need for acknowledgement from others. The feeling of honoring yourself is a very self rewarding feeling. Life’s not always about pleasing others. Welcome to mid life…the time between growing up and growing old.

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